Well Hey There Hoochie Mamma

Can I just say that I don't know what some mothers are thinking letting their daughters wear dresses that expose everything

Yeah, girls, let me drop a little knowledge on you.  Teenage boys (and men) are very visual.  They see and respond.  Hence why Victoria's Secret, even though she has no secrets, and porn are booming businesses.  You order one thing from VS & you will get a magazine at least 2-3 times a week from them.  It's crazy!  But men see, and they want.  Boys are the same way. 

When you parade like a stripper in your very short dress/skirt and some hooker shoes, do you not know that you are a stumbling block for guys.  Do you not know how they see you?  Now, I love me some very high heeled shoes, but it's what you wear with them.  I don't care if it's what is the height of fashion, you still have a choice to wear it or not.  I know you don't want to be seen as an object, but when you display everything you have, that's how guys are going to see you.  Even the good guys.


Here's what the bible says:

Timothy 2:8-10
Therefore I want the men everywhere to pray, lifting up holy hands without anger or disputing. I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God.  
 
1 Timothy 4:12
Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity.
 
 
Now, I'm not saying you're not pure if you dress like a hootchie mamma, but you have the appearance that you're not.  Is that fair, probably not, but trust me, a lot of us boy mammas don't want our guys going out with you.  Did you know the average guy thinks about sex 19 times a day?  (that's based on a study done by Ohio State University.)  Let's define a day as 18 hours, that's a little more than once an hour that they are thinking about sex.  That's a lot when you think about everything else they need to be thinking about, and I really don't need you helping that number become higher. 
 
Hey ladies (both old and young) cova' yo'self up...please.  You can still look pretty and have your bootie covered up with your dress a little looser.  I promise you won't look less beautiful, but guys will notice you first and not be thinking of you as a sex object.
 
Celebrating life!
~ashley

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